Signs of cheating in an established relationship Time’s cut short: The time you do spend together often is cut short and you end up hanging out just a few hours here and there, Heide says.“Your relationship revolves around sexuality and lacks more substance than that.” They’re very sexual: “They show a high level of sexuality from the very beginning, sending and requesting sexy texts messages and picture,” Heide says.And when you do speak on the phone, it’s scheduled in advance. They’re too busy: Most of the time they’re too busy for you and/or they never (or rarely) answer their phone, Heide points out.Therefore you never meet friends or family or are allowed to visit them at work.” “Or they simply don’t want anyone to know about you. They keep you at arm’s length: “They keep you at arm’s length from their real life because they’re afraid of getting caught if you talk to their friends,” she says.And if you’re not available sexually, they give the impression that they’re not available either. It’s all about sex: If it’s a new relationship, chances are the relationship has been made to be all about sex from the get go, Heide says.So how can you tell if someone is a cheater? Well, it all depends if it’s a new or long-term relationship, but being a man or woman has no bearing on the signs Heide says. “They care less about people’s feelings than they do about physically satisfying themselves, and often say or do whatever it takes to gain the sexual partners they’re interested in.” “ feel compelled to seek out multiple sexual partners to satisfy their high sex drive,” she explains. Like with drugs, however, Heide explains that our bodies have become accustomed to them and their intensity wears off.
The chemicals in our bodies release when a relationship is new or incredibly intense, and can be compared to the same internal reactions we have when we do cocaine, meth and ecstasy.” “Why are some people chronic cheaters? The fact is the act of meeting a new partner and beginning a new relationship has intense chemical drivers, since we’re designed by nature to couple up and copulate in order to ensure the proliferation of the species. “Fundamentally, we are not monogamous by nature, but rather it’s our culture that calls for monogamy,” relationship expert Chantal Heide says. Not many people can, but knowing what signs to look for can save you a lot of time and (at least some) heartbreak.
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